Every day when you wake up, you have the choice to create your life or let it be created by the conclusions and projections of this reality.
If you don’t create your reality this reality will create it for you. Being the leader of your life is a continuous choice, we are all influencers, we influence the people around us all the time with everything we do and say.
So, let’s start by giving you my favorite tip for being the leader in your life:
Your point of view creates your reality.
Because your point of view creates your reality and that also creates your experience and you use your experience to validate that your point of view is right.
Now, if you change your point of view, your experience changes too. What if changing your point of view changes the limitations in your life?
For example, my daughter who a couple of years ago was in college and doing really well in accountancy came to me one day, and said, “Mom, I am not happy, I am quitting accountancy. If I had to do this forever, I think I would go crazy”.
Now I had a very fixed point of view about education and college. I had not done a degree myself and I had the belief that if she had a degree she would be secure. The point of view was really strong, however, I stopped myself and wondered would I rather my daughter lives miserable or would I change my point of view?
Now how did I change this monster of a point of view? With one of the amazing Access tools called Interesting Point of View.
If you realize your point of view creates your reality, reality doesn’t create your point of view then changing anything in your life that is not working for you is easy to change. This is how you use interesting point of view: take an upset in your life and say “interesting point of view I have this point of view”. You don’t have to say it out loud you can just say it in your head. Try saying “interesting point of view I have this point of view” a few times and see how it changes the energy and the upset.
So that is exactly what I did with my point of view that my daughter should continue her studies: “interesting point of view I have this point of view, interesting point of view I, have this point of view”. Within just a couple of minutes, I recognised that I had to trust my daughter to be the source of creation for her life and the upset was gone.
One of the greatest gifts of being alive is recognizing that you have a choice and you can create your life and you’re the source of your reality.
So today my beautiful twenty-two-year-old daughter is a leader in her own life: a soccer coach, she coaches teams, she referees matches, and she’s just such a joy and so happy.
Most people when they say ‘interesting point of view I have this point of view‘ three to five times, the point of view changes. You can use this tool anytime. Don’t trust me, use it for a week. You may be happier and may have way more freedom.